Sometimes I feel like a flake. The crappy part about this is that flakiness is one of my biggest pet peeves. I cannot stand flakey people! I hate when people bail on plans or lack planning skills in general. I have unfortunately become one of those people. It seems like I never really know how I'm going to feel from day to day; be it my level of energy, brain fog, headaches...and the list goes on. When I think about how disappointed I become with people like me, it really sucks. I have this major complex about being the one who disappoints. Hypocrite that I am, I have been perpetually disappointed with people lately. I think it's true that what we can't stand in others is really just what we hate most about ourselves.

So I'm feeling the MS "flake factor" trickle over into every aspect of my life. It seems like the time in between feeling like a steaming pile of poop, is just not enough to make everything I want to happen, happen. Perhaps the geniuses who have told me that it's almost always Type A personalities who get MS are right? Somehow I find this doubtful, but perhaps I am too anal for my own good. It's like I have this ever growing list of things going in my head that I want to do not only for myself, but for other people. Unfortunately I feel like it's effing baby steps all the way, and by the end of the day I've barely made a dent in my list of things to do. Why is it that shit is just so overwhelming lately?! Have I always been like this, or am I letting MS make me feel like I can't accomplish everything that use to seem so easy for me?

On the social side of the "flake factor" I feel like I'm not exactly being the friend that I want my friends to be. One of the things that I have found so important for me is just feeling like my friends honest to god, give a shit about how I'm feeling or what's going on with me. The awful part about this, is that I do a terrible job lately of making sure people know how much I actually "give a shit" what's happening in their lives. I guess it's good to remember that I'm not the only person who has had shit hit the fan in the last year, in fact I don't know a single person who isn't dealing with some major life malfunction these days. Either way, I realize that social crap is a pretty important part of our "being" and it's something I definitely need to work on. 

The hilarity to all of this is in about five minutes, I might have myself convinced that I am conquering the world. I just wish these moments of self assured victory weren't so fleeting.